Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Personal Project: Four People – Twelve Times. January 2011.



Check me out.  I did it.  Month one = success!

Ok.  To summarize January.  The thing that comes to mind when I think of January is SNOW.  On top of our White Christmas, it snowed heaps and mounds in January.  We had about 4 inches of the white stuff, and about an inch of the frozen white stuff (ice).  All of this winter white resulted in THREE days off from work.  WooHoo!  We constructed our very own high performance sled – made out of an old couch cushion, plastic and lots and lots of duct tape.  Yes, we are hard core.  The neighbors coveted our sled as we raced down the surrounding the driveways.  Ok.  So that’s a lie.  But we had fun.  Alena’s primary goal was to achieve mach 1 as she raced down hills.  Algis was more interested in the snow-ice buffet and enjoyed eating as much of the white stuff as he could stomach.  Hopefully what he ate was all white and not yellow.  We also built, what I am pretty sure was the biggest snowman in the neighborhood.  He was decked out in an AUburn t-shirt, AUburn shaker and a roll of toilet paper – ready to roll Toomer’s Corner in honor of Auburn’s BCS Championship Title!!  War Eagle!

January meant back to school for the kids.  They were lucky enough to spend the entire month of December on vacation.  Jonas’ parents came here, then took the kids home with them – and the kids were shipped back and forth for the month.  Happy that they got to spend so much time with their grandparents.  Times with my grandmother are my most precious memories, and I’m glad the kids get to create some memories of their own.  The only drawback was the reintroduction to the schedule.  Actually Alena was eager to return to school and all of her friends.  She is our social butterfly.  Surely she will be class president or the leader of The Pink Ladies...something.  Algis was a little less than thrilled to return.  After about a week of prying him off my leg in the mornings, he is back into the groove.  He is the sensitive one.  Might not run for office, but always the first to make sure everyone is ok.

I have made a conscious effort to be more present when I’m around the kids.  My life is passin’ me by and no matter how hard I dig in my heels and try to slow it down – it keeps on truckin’.  I don’t want to forget a thing.  This little life that we have created for ourselves is so precious to me and I want to cherish it.  As they get older and I hear these things come out of their mouths: Alena at hearing a Miley Cyrus song, “I just love this song.  It makes me want to cry”  WHAT?!  How old are you??  Or as I am getting smoothies out of the fridge for Alena, Algis yells, “Hey Lena!  You want a smooth knee?”  Hilarious.  These little moments that crack me up and melt my heart are signs that they are growing up and their personalities are solidifying.  And I didn’t all of a sudden see the light or even have an “ah-ha”  moment about trying to be more present.  One night during the dreaded bed time routine, I raised my voice at Alena and her little chin began to tremble and her eyes welled up.  She did as she was told and went to bed.  At first, I was proud of myself for being firm and following through.  And then I thought about it and it didn’t sit well with me.  I don’t have many memories of my mom yelling at me to the point of making me cry.  And whatever Alena did that night, I can’t even remember what it was, certainly did not deserve a tongue-lashing from a frustrated, exhausted mommy.  I went into her room and apologized.  “It’s ok Mommy.  I love you.”  For real?  Dagger to my heart.  That was all I needed to hear.  I will do better. 

The photo for this month was taken on a freakishly warm weather day in January.  70 degrees.  It was glorious.  We took full advantage and headed down to Tomas and Neely’s for fun, food and fresh air.  So in addition to completing month #1 of my little project here, we also had our first “Sunday Family Dinner” with Tomas, Neely and Lila – and friends.  We plan to make that a tradition as well.  Who said you have to be Italian to enjoy Sunday Family Dinner?

Also this month: Alena cut her own hair.  It wasn’t a huge chunk, but there is definitely a handful missing.  We have yet to get it fixed since she is adamant that her hair grow down her back, but I think a trip to Pigtails-n-Crewcuts is in our very near future.  The kids went to the dentist.  Alena’s 2nd visit and Algis’ 1st.  Alena is a rock star at the dentist.  Algis…..well….let’s just say that we are hopeful that he will actually allow the dentist to look into his mouth at his next visit.  The dentist was able to get a quick peek and said that everything looks great.  Jonas started a new job.  WooHoo!  He already seems happier and more motivated than ever.  Its good to see him get his Mojo back.  We both started exercising again.  Of course.  Its January.  That’s what we do.  But with my other fitness goals this year, I had to start some time.  Jonas is P90Xing and will be rock hard in about a week.  (Men!  I swear he works out twice and he’s right back to top form.  Me?  Not so much.)

As far as I can tell, January was a complete success.  Here’s to keeping the streak alive!



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Pitt Pair said...

hi Karen! I love your blog. Motivates me more to write more on mine...You will love looking back on it next year, the year after, and many more to come. Proud of you!! Rock star mommy!! Give your kids a kiss for me-They are so cute and make me laugh!!